A man shared a post on X, inviting men to share their biggest regrets about marrying.
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Many Men opined that marriage is not for the weak, sharing some of the things one should look for in a woman before deciding to settle down.
Some opined that marrying a learned, working-class, respectful, and submi*sive woman would prolong a marriage.
What kind of women men love to marry?
Reactions include:
@hacktyvist said:
“Do not marry a lady from poor family, do background check before marriage,”
@soufside_go said:
“Don’t marry anyone before you attain your own personal goals! Can’t take care of a family if you haven’t taken care of yourself first!”
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@godwinkaburuma said:
“As a man, never consider marrying someone who doesn’t respect and submit to you, no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty won’t take you or your family anywhere, but her loyalty, kindness, humility, patience, understanding, and support will. A family built on love, respect.”
@Hisboykilroy said:
“That we wasted a ton of money on a wedding instead of using it for a downpayment on a home.”
@A_RWAC said:
“Don’t get into anything you can’t walk away from in a blink of an eye – Don’t say anything you won’t want brought up later.”
@FilaniOjemalia said:
“Don’t marry out of pity.”
@RedNeckerie said:
“Don’t confuse the infatuation of a new romance with “true love”. Know the qualities you want and look for those specifically. Romance and good feelings are awesome but are an inadequate foundation for a lasting, healthy relationship.
@MhFran_Lancer said:
“Never marry your ex as some sort of reconciliation. Leave that chapter close and keep moving forward. After time passes, they are not the same person anymore. I made that mistake and it nearly cost me everything. Put yourself first no matter what or who.”
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Bull Isaac said:
“Marry a working woman…Forget about the beauty.”
Man regrets marrying villagemate
In a related story, a man has recently expressed his regret for deciding to journey back to his village to find a woman to be his wife.
In an interview, he shed light on how the woman he picked from his village and made his wife later abandoned him for a rich man in Accra.
The father of two says he now hopes to find his feet financially so he could marry a woman already living in Accra.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
