In the heart of Nyalenda Slums, Kisumu County, a quiet revolution is brewing. It is not led by politicians or international NGOs, but by the resilient voices of women who have endured, survived, and now thrive.

At the center of this movement is Beatrice Amondi, founder of the Jiwo Mwanadada Foundation, a grassroots organization that has become a lifeline for women confronting gender-based violence (GBV).

“We are here as the Jiwo Mwanadada Foundation, in partnership with the Nyanza Widows Empowerment Program and the Lake Basin Development Authority, to commemorate the 16 Days of Gender Activism,” Amondi began passionately during a community gathering.

Her words resonated deeply with the crowd, composed of survivors, advocates, and community members.

Breaking the Silence

For many women in Nyalenda, the silence surrounding GBV is deafening. Cultural taboos, fear of stigma, and lack of support systems have long perpetuated the cycle of violence. Amondi recognizes this challenge and speaks candidly about the importance of open dialogue.

“This is a very difficult conversation to have in homes and schools,” she said. “But it is critical. Families must begin talking about these issues, and the government should introduce discussions on gender equality and violence prevention in the school curriculum. If we teach our children early, we can change the narrative for the next generation.”

Under Amondi’s leadership, Jiwo Mwanadada has become a beacon of hope, providing a platform for women to share their stories and seek help. Through workshops, counseling sessions, and advocacy campaigns, the organization has reached hundreds of women, empowering them to reclaim their lives.

The rise in femicide

Amondi’s concern is backed by alarming data: cases of femicide in Kisumu County have risen this year compared to previous years.

In 2023, the Kenya National Bureau of Statistics reported an increase in gender-based violence, with femicide rates rising by nearly 30 per cent. 

“This year, we have witnessed a troubling increase in femicide cases,” she said, her voice tinged with urgency.

“The government must enact stricter laws and policies to protect women. But this isn’t just about legislation; it’s about empowering our youth and creating opportunities for them.”

Amondi highlighted initiatives like the Lake Basin Development Authority’s rice mill project, which has provided employment for local youth and fostered economic independence. “When young people are empowered and employed, they are less likely to turn to destructive behaviors,” she explained.

A Community Effort

The fight against GBV in Nyalenda is not a solo endeavor. Advocates like Jeronim Obwar have joined hands with Jiwo Mwanadada to address the systemic roots of violence.

“GBV is not new; it’s historical and systemic,” Obwar noted. “It exists in our homes, churches, and workplaces. To address it, we must start at the family level. How do we teach people about good parenting? Many perpetrators were once victims themselves. If we only treat the symptoms, we’ll never solve the problem.”

Obwar emphasized the need for government-supported safe houses for survivors. “Victims cannot go back to the crime scene,” he said. “They need safe spaces to heal and rebuild their lives. Let’s have these conversations and work toward sustainable solutions.”

Men in the Conversation

While the spotlight often shines on women, men like Jesse James from Kisumu are stepping forward to highlight the lesser-discussed aspect of GBV—violence against men.

“Men also suffer from GBV, but society mocks those who speak out,” James explained. “When a man is beaten by his wife, people laugh instead of offering help. This stigma silences many men who need support. We need to create spaces where men can share their experiences without fear of judgment.”

James’ perspective underscores the importance of inclusivity in the fight against GBV. “This isn’t just a women’s issue,” he said. “It’s a societal problem, and we all have a role to play.”

Hope Amidst Adversity

As the community gathered in Nyalenda to mark the 16 Days of Gender Activism, there was a palpable sense of hope. Survivors shared stories of resilience, advocates discussed solutions, and the crowd pledged to stand united against GBV.

Amondi’s closing words were a rallying cry: “GBV is a pandemic, but it is one we can overcome. By having these conversations, empowering our youth, and supporting survivors, we can break the cycle. Together, we will create a future where every woman, man, and child can live free from violence.”

In Nyalenda, the revolution is personal. It is a battle fought in homes, schools, and community halls. Thanks to organizations like Jiwo Mwanadada, the silence is finally being broken, one voice at a time.